If your marriage is over, and you don’t want it to be, there are a few things that you can do to get ex husband back. Of course, your situation is unique and there may be other people involved, but for the most part these tips will help you learn how you can rekindle your love with your ex.
One word of caution though, make sure that you should be getting back with your ex. We all know that no is perfect, but if there is any type of abuse such as verbal, sexual, or physical, the first thing you should do is go to a counselor. You really need to find a way to break the cycle of violence.
If your relationship wasn’t abusive, was actually pretty good for the most part, and you really believe it is worth saving, it is important how you approach your ex.
No one likes whiny, needy people. If you are a crying mess you will most likely just scare your ex husband off. It’s important that you take the time you need, as much as you need, to get strong enough to be able to talk to your ex without falling apart.
The same thing applies to your anger, don’t even think about talking to your ex about a reconciliation if you’re still angry at him for the issues in your marriage. If you do, you’ll just be wasting whatever chance you may have had to get back together.
Once you’ve gotten your self together it may take some time to convince him that you and he can talk without it becoming an emotional nightmare. You want to keep in touch with him, but you have to be very careful you don’t cross the line and become a nuisance, or worse, a stalker.
You will also need to be honest about what you did wrong in the relationship and what you are willing to do to fix it. It’s important that he sees that you recognize your shortcomings and that you are willing to correct past mistakes.
If he is interested in trying to get back together you may want to find someone to help the two of you learn better ways of communicating.
If you want to get ex husband back you have to remind him of the woman he fell in love with, not the screaming woman he probably saw you as towards the end of your marriage. If you are both willing to make changes and learn new ways to talk things over, you can get a second chance.