"The woman who can read a man’s heart and mind has an unfair advantage for it triggers his deepest desire – to feel understood."
IT’S A FACT: If you could read your man’s mind, you would have an almost “unfair” advantage over every other woman he’s ever met.
Fact is, I’ve taught this to thousands of women worldwide. And it’s all based on scientific fact and my experience working with hundreds of clients in my private practice.
Fact is, you won’t discover the secrets of understanding men by talking to other women. To really understand men, you simply need to talk to a man. But notice that I didn’t say, “Talk to ANY man.” No! You need to talk to a man with years of professional experience helping thousands of couples nationwide to understand each other… communicate more effectively… and have more fun while both dating and in long-term relationships.
And during that time, I’ve helped hundreds of men and women find and achieve more rewarding and satisfying relationships. In fact, I’ve been nicknamed, “The Relationship Doctor” by my clients nationwide. That’s because I’ve discovered the prescription for keeping your love alive… whether you want to strengthen an existing relationship, or rekindle the fiery spark you once had and badly want back. Best of all… it really works.
So if you want to understand your man better… and you’re not afraid of some straight talk… keep reading. I’m going to share with you some of the secrets I’ve learned.
And in the next few minutes, I’ll show you how—using your intuition—you can easily develop an almost magical ability to “see” what your man is thinking… read his mind… understand his actions… and interpret his often confusing behaviors.
I’ll also show you an incredibly simple way you can learn to deepen your romantic connection with your man and super-charge your relationship for life.
How to “decode” his body language and translate his “man-speak.” (He won’t have a clue what you’re doing differently, but in just minutes he’ll feel closer to you than ever before.)
How to tell in just a few dates if he’s serious about you. (A priceless time- and emotion- saver!)
What amazing women do that make them irresistible to men. (You can begin using these ideas tonight.)
How to have “Mr. Right” want to become “Mr. Forever.” (The key to making even the most non-committal man finally say, “I do!”)
How to communicate with him without getting into an argument. (It’s like verbal jujitsu for relationships… and I’ll teach you how to do it.)
“I got your program and after over 28 years without a man in my life I am learning how to talk to men and hopefully to find one to spend the rest of my life with.” Sydney Atlanta, GA
MYTH: Men HATE Talking About Their Feelings TRUTH: Men Are DYING to Open Up and Share… With the RIGHT WOMAN
So when you feel insecure about something or want to share something you think he’ll perceive as “negative,” you don’t. You keep it inside. You bottle it up.
The problem with this approach (and many women do this) is you end up feeling more scared and alone than ever. And—the worse part—it often becomes a vicious cycle: You don’t share your true feelings with him, and he doesn’t seem to be sharing his true self with you, either. It’s frustrating for everyone! You’re dying to ask him what’s wrong, but you don’t. You tippy-toe around him, holding your breath. And you force yourself to accept the silence and the distance between you.
Don’t do it! Nothing could be further from the truth! Here’s a little-known secret that will turn your love life around and bring you the closeness you’ve been seeking…
Men don’t like drama or high emotions. (Read that again.) It makes them uncomfortable. But that’s not because they don’t care. Rather it’s because they’re not as comfortable handling emotions as women are. So emotional intensity or hidden intensity makes men want to shut down and withdraw.
In order to feel comfortable opening up, a man needs to feel safe with you. And he can’t feel safe if you’re making him uncomfortable. However, if you can express our feelings in a non-judgmental way, you allow your man to stay open to you. And he’ll feel more comfortable opening up to you, too.
“I think the advice is right on and have found it very helpful. I have a friend who is a marriage counselor and she says many of the same things, which puts her in good company. I especially like the section on How To Read His Mind. I love Bob Grant!” Stacy Chico, CA
Stuffing down negative emotions or pretending that something doesn’t bother you doesn’t work. Sure, you’ll avoid outright conflict, but you’re not fooling anyone—least of all your man.
Instead, share your feelings, not your thoughts or actions. What do I mean by this? Let me explain:
Let’s say your guy has been working a lot, and coming home late. You hardly see him anymore, and it’s begun to feel like you’re roommates sharing a space, instead of lovers sharing a life. Worse, when he is home, the two of you never talk about your relationship any more. It’s as though your life as a couple has ceased to exist.
Lately—when you hear him come in—you’re not delighted and excited to have him home. Instead, you dread another long evening of silence and small talk.
At the sound of his key in the lock, your heart pounds, and your stomach tightens. Once those physical feelings meant love…