Over the past 5+ years I’ve coached individually people from over 20 countries, on 4 continents, and I helped them turn from anxious and awkward socially to confident and charismatic.
In this unique presentation, I’d like to show you how they did it. The practical information that follows will definitely interest you if:
If you experience any of these symptoms, I want to let you know that I’ve been there and I know exactly how it feels. The good news is that…
You Can Fix All These Issues, and It Only Requires One Key Change: Improving Your Conversation Confidence
Conversation confidence is that feeling of calm and self-assurance regarding starting a conversation, making conversation and expressing yourself in it.
The truth is there are lots of articles, books and courses on building conversation confidence out there, and they all promises miraculous results, but less than 5% of them have been rigorously tested and actually work. The rest is just simplistic, naive and repetitive advice.
Well, I’m about to share with you the 2 steps of the only method for building conversation confidence that has been proven to work consistently. So, you’ll obviously want to keep reading attentively.
First and foremost, this is the method that I’ve personally used successfully to become confident socially. In high-school and college…
I felt anxious during most conversations, I was very reserved and I often struggled with making even basic conversation.
I remember that sometimes while walking down the street, if I would notice a person I knew on the same side, I would urgently cross to the other side of the street so I wouldn’t run into them, because just the thought of having to talk with them made me feel nervous.
I meet lots of new people every single week and I find it easy and fun to make conversation with them.
I can always count on the fact that I can be myself and others will like me just the way I am. And my only issue is that I know too many cool people to be able to hang out with each one of them as much as I would like to.
I also give speeches on the psychology of confidence on a regular basis, to audiences of up to a few hundred, and I positively love every second of it. All thanks to this method for building conversation confidence.
In addition, over the past 5+ years, as a social confidence coach, I’ve worked with hundreds of individuals just like you and helped them boost their conversation confidence using the very same system.
And to top it all off, this method draws from the principles and techniques in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Coaching, which are validated by over 2000 scientific studies and I’ve optimized to work particularly well for building conversation confidence. Plain and simply…
I Want To Teach You the Most Rigorously Tested and Carefully Tweaked Method for Building Conversation Confidence in Existence
The essential thing you need to understand is that confidence is created by your beliefs system. And so is insecurity.
According to Albert Ellis, who is deemed as the second most influential psychotherapist in history, “external events do not make us disturbed. Rather, we disturb ourselves by telling ourselves, and for the most part creatively inventing, irrational beliefs.”
I’ve studied and interviewed numerous individuals with natural conversation confidence, and I can tell you one thing about them: most of them are just average individuals, with above average conversation confidence.
They’re not smarter than you or me, wealthier, more successful or better looking. And the charisma or conversation skills they may have are largely the product of their confidence, not its cause.
Why are they confident? Simply because they have a set of deep-seated beliefs that automatically empower them in social settings instead of disempowering them.
You lack conversation confidence because you hold false beliefs that are feeding your lack of confidence and making you miss out on life. The fact of the matter is…
The Only Thing That’s Stopping You From Having The Conversation Confidence You Want Right Now Is Your Limiting Beliefs
This is precisely what my method for building conversation confidence is all about. It eliminates your disempowering beliefs and replaces them with empowering ones.
This method consists of two interconnected change steps, which I’m gonna share with you here, so you can take the right path for improving your confidence.
In order to learn exactly how to implement each change step and reach your destination, I have created for you a comprehensive guide called “Conversation Confidence”.
“Conversation Confidence” provides the specific knowledge and detailed instructions that you must have to effectively become confident in conversation. It’s the precise solution that both myself and hundreds of people I’ve worked with as a social confidence coach over the past 5+ years have used successfully.
Here are the two action steps that are guaranteed to make you confident and smooth in any social situation.
Your limiting beliefs related to conversation set off erroneous thinking, which in turn triggers anxiety. This chain is the core of your lack of conversation confidence.
Individuals who lack conversation confidence have a very distorted way of thinking about conversation. Their mind reflexively exaggerates the risks of making mistakes in social situations, embarrassing themselves, getting rejected, and the dangers of doing so.
It’s important to counteract this distorted thinking head-on, and it’s even more important to do so proficiently.
The problem is that if you just try to catch and control all your thoughts, the only thing you’re likely to do is to go insane.
Like most people who lack conversation confidence, without even realizing it, you’re probably working against yourself. You employ behaviors that reinforce your lack of conversation confidence, plus mess up a big part of your social interactions and social life.
For instance, you may behave during…